Register a profile

This takes about fifteen minutes. Your name and number stay with us - they're never shown to anyone else unless both sides have agreed to an introduction.

There are no photographs. If something doesn't apply to you, leave it.

01Who's registering

Are you registering for yourself, or for someone in your family? *

Myself Someone in my family

If it's for someone else, answer the rest as though you are them. We'll confirm with them before the profile goes active.

02Contact details

These stay with us. They are not part of the profile anyone sees.

Full name *

Cellphone number * We use WhatsApp for anything we need to send you.

Email address

03Your family contact

We don't ask for ID documents. We send one message to a family member to confirm you're registering with their knowledge. Nothing happens until they reply.

Name of your wali or family contact *

Their cellphone number *

Their relationship to you * Father, brother, uncle, mother - whoever is the right person for you.

04The basics

Date of birth *

Male or female? *

Male Female

Marital status *

Single Divorced Widowed

How many children do you have? * Enter 0 if none.

Which area do you live in? * Suburb or town is enough.

Province *

05Background

Highest level of education *

What do you do? * Your job, studies, or what keeps you busy.

Height (cm) *

Approximate weight (kg) * An estimate is fine.

Skin complexion *

Fair Wheatish Medium Dark

Sector *

How would you describe your religious outlook? *

How do you dress day to day? * Choose all that apply.

06In your own words

This is the part people actually read. Write it the way you'd say it.

What do you do with your time? * Interests, what a normal weekend looks like.

Anything you'd want a potential spouse to know about you * A few sentences. What matters to you, what you're hoping for in a marriage.

Is there anything you'd rather say upfront than have come out later? Health, previous marriages, family circumstances, financial commitments. Nothing here is shared without your say-so - it helps us avoid wasting your time on the wrong match.

07What you're looking for

Youngest age you'd consider *

Oldest *

Marital status you'd consider *

Single Divorced Widowed

Would you consider someone with children? *

Yes No Depends

Would you consider someone from another town or province? *

Yes No Depends

Sector you'd prefer Leave blank if it doesn't matter to you.

Religious outlook you'd prefer

Of everything above, which two matter most to you? * Choose up to two. We use this when there's more than one possible match.

Anything else that matters Deal-breakers, expectations about living arrangements or work after marriage, anything that would rule someone in or out for you.

08Before you submit

Everything I've written here is true. I understand my profile is only shown to someone Khitbah has proposed it to, and that my name and number are shared only if both sides agree to an introduction. I won't share anything I'm sent about another person with anyone outside my immediate family, and I'll delete it if the match doesn't go ahead.

We'll message your family contact to confirm. Once they reply, your profile becomes active - nothing is visible to anyone until then.